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Chances are you've heard the story: an unmarked door le to a dimly-lit massage parlor where women with strong hands and tolerant smiles await a train of libidinous male patrons. Happy ending massage stories are all too common. The mixture of truth and urban legend captivates male and female imaginations even in an age of readily available casual sex and unlimited Internet porn. The rest of spa culture, meanwhile, is dominated by women. There are more than 14, spas in the U. With all Great massage for ladies time spent around low lighting, soft music, and heavy rubbing, it can be tough not to think of sex, but until recently, the female version of these erotic massages has remained doggedly taboo.
Luckily, societal rules restricting female sexuality are dying as fast as "Sex and the City" slayed them, and it was only a matter of time before women embraced the notion that "quick releases" aren't just for men. And with competition among spas getting ever more intense, customers are starting to demand more than just Enya and free herbal tea with their Shiatsu, according to massage therapists.
The bottom line: Women like massages and woman like orgasms, so why shouldn't the two sometimes literally come hand in hand? But with women, it's so subtle. There's really no way to know if they want sexual contact, even if there's moaning and heavy breathing. For many women, the idea of point-blank asking a hot masseur to "finish me off" sounds about as appealing as a full-body exfoliation with Brillo p. And as Samantha learned in the now-notorious "Sex and the City" episode, making demands can result in humiliation.
She first discovered erotic massage during an in-room rubdown at an upscale Miami hotel. He started slowly touching my thigh, then going higher, and it turned into a game of how far each of us would take it. One thing led to another and he ended up finishing me off, which was great. An East Village fixture famous for its massive steam rooms and women-only days, it once drew celebrities from John Belushi to Frank Sinatra, and now attracts a cross-section of New Yorkers from Russian sexagenarians to downtown fashionistas. My nipples got erect, so that must have sent him a al.
He started rubbing me on the pressure points around my hips. He never actually touched my clitoris or vagina; it was just all around the area. I did [have an orgasm]; afterward, people kept stopping me on the street to say, 'Oh my God, you're glowing. Chemistry with your masseur is a key factor, and one that can't always be controlled. But if it's present, the possibilities are endless.
I was nervous; I'd never had a man massage me before. He ended up being so hot.
I was turned on the whole time, but nothing happened. I was on my stomach while he massaged my back, and when I turned around, topless, we started making out. He said, 'I can't do this, it's unprofessional,' so we stopped.
But when I went back a third time, we ended up having sex in the massage room. After that, we started dating. Every state save Nevada considers prostitution illegal, and in some states, it can lead to months of jail time.
Also upping the ante is the gray area surrounding sexual assault, generally defined as nonconsensual touching of the genital area. So how hard is it to find that perfect massage combination of chemistry, timing, setting, and mood? I hit the massage tables to find out. Stop one was Cornelia Day Resort, then located on Fifth Avenue the spa was closed amid controversy in and reopened in in a new location under new managementknown for its Chanel-clad clientele and handsome male staff. I booked a Swedish massage and showed up with high expectations. But after minutes of awkwardness peppered with a few moans that provoked no response besides, "Is the pressure OK?
I dispatched my sexy and adventurous friend, Joanna, on a spa mini-marathon, with instructions to request a male massage therapist and, if possible, end each massage with a big finish.
Her first stop was Great Jones Spaa relaxation Mecca for the downtown set. The result was Andy, a pony-tailed Adonis with bicep tattoos and a winning smile. As he massaged her thighs, she flirted with comments like, "That feels so good" and "Feel free to keep going. At first, her advances brought no response, but after a while, he treated her to a polite, non-judgmental lecture about how "going there" was against the rules, and he loved his job too much to put it at risk.
So I felt better, though I said no. Next was The Spa at Mandarin Orientalan ultra-opulent setting known for its lavish views and obsequious service. This time, her method consisted of suggestive moaning and pulling the strategically placed towel away during the "inner thigh" portion of her deep tissue rubdown. Her masseur, immaculately groomed and very clearly gay, resisted her advances, saying simply, "I love my job here, and I'd do anything to keep it.
It took me all of two minutes of sitting there to climax, then the woman who went in after me looked like she took 30 seconds. While the experience was refreshing "I definitely left with a glow" we still had two spas down and no. You should ask for Tron; he's fantastic. I flirted with him all the way from the waiting room to the massage room, and we chatted about our lives. When we got inside, I talked about how I hated having underwear and towels constricting me during massages, and he said, 'I'm comfortable with you having them off.
Finally, he turned me over, and it was on. Kissing turned to heavy petting with a strong dose of grinding, until he was on top of her on the table. Joanna recalls the make-out session as being totally comfortable. But after the first few minutes, she broke away, saying, "I'm sorry, this is so inappropriate. His response: "Sweetie, you are my reward for the two men who asked me for happy endings earlier today.
I told them no — but for you, I won't tell if you won't. It didn't feel like I was just being serviced," she recalls. Whether you think happy endings are the pinnacle of bliss or the apex of vileness, it's still nice to have the option. in. YourTango Experts. Subscribe to our newsletter.
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